Every once in a while, things can get boring, or not so exciting in the bedroom. But don’t worry, sometimes you just need a small boost, something new to keep the passion going. This doesn’t have to be anything extravagant. Sometimes a simple addition like new lingerie, a fun sex toy or a spicy book can ignite the spark and make your bed adventures enjoyable and exciting again.
Strap-On Toys

If you and your partner are adventurous and like to try new things in the bedroom, you should consider buying sex toys. They can be a good way to go through new experiences and explore your desires even more. If that’s your goal, you should invest in easy-to-use strap-on adult toys.
These toys are suitable for both experienced users and beginners. Using them can change the dynamic of your relationship and spice things up like nothing else has. Once you understand their anatomy, you’ll use these toys more confidently. They’re mainly made of 2 pieces, the strap and the toy.
There are several ways the straps can fit your body and you should experiment to find the most comfortable ones. If you’re new to this world, you should probably start with the jock straps. They resemble underwear and are pretty comfortable to wear. They wrap around the hips and give you enough support in the front. Their back is exposed so you and your partner can have room for additional stimulation.
If you’re a bit more experienced and adventurous, go for the thong-style harness. The back strap goes between your cheeks and the front is still sturdy enough to hold the toy and let you enjoy it. Both are adjustable so you can easily fit them on you or your partner.
Even though it may sound weird, there’s also a strapless strap-on. Instead, this toy has two shafts. One is longer and the other is shorter. The shorter shaft is also known as a “pony”. With this toy, you insert the pony in the vaginal opening and hold it with your vaginal and pelvic muscles. The other end goes inside your partner.
You can use it for oral, anal or vaginal penetration. The lack of straps and harnesses brings you closer, skin-to-skin with your partner and increases intimacy. You may not have enough muscle strength to hold it for a long time but try to find the right angle and a suitable rhythm. If you do this, you’re guaranteed a very pleasurable experience.
Sexy Games
Playing some sexy games together might be a great way to deepen your relationship. Entertaining and stimulating games can be one of the most unique gifts your partner will get. Plus, they can be educational at times. Manufacturers have reinvented existing board games and transformed them into something more provoking.
The OSG or Our Sex Game is one of them. It’s good for erotic exploration and stimulates conversation. You complete tasks, have fun and learn about your wishes, fantasies and boundaries. You can also find the adult version of Monopoly. It’s called Monogamy and works very similarly.
There are also Sex Dice. They’re a spicy version of Twister where you roll the dice and they tell you where to place your hands and feet. If your partner is a fan of Jenga, they’ll find Sex Stack very interesting. Each block you pull will have a task that needs to be done. If they’re more into sweetness and sensuality, you can try Touch and Tell. It’s all about intimacy, touching and sharing sweet moments together.
If you’re both kinky and are into fetishes, you should buy Fetish Seductions. It’s a world where you can explore lots of leather, uniforms, dominance, strap-on adult toys and much more. This is a daring game that can test your boundaries. No matter what your partner’s preferences are, you’ll surely find a game they can enjoy and have fun with.
Lingerie

Lingerie can make a person feel confident, comfortable and happy. Just like the strap-on dildos, it’s something that both parties can enjoy and can help them set the mood for an unforgettable night. So, consider this as the next sexy, spicy gift. The classic, black lace lingerie is one of the favourites. It’s elegant, sexy and flattering.
Bustiers and corsets are one of the sexiest options. It gives the body an hourglass shape and glamorous aesthetics. If you decide to buy them, look for strong materials with a good boning structure on the inside. Slips and Babydolls are another classic. They bring mystery into the bedroom and are great if your partner needs a confidence boost.
Bodysuits emphasise the body’s silhouette and make the person look sexy and irresistible with all the lace details. When it comes to materials, anytime you can go for silk. It’s sexy, flowy and looks gorgeous. Fit is crucial to get the right level of excitement and confidence. Colour-wise, the options are endless but most people go for the classy black, fiery red or gentle white.
Spicy Books
Learning about sexual health and pleasure can benefit both you and your partner, making it a valuable investment for a fulfilling sex life. You can discover new stimulative places, explore new ways of making love and learn about your desires through books. You could start with erotic novels that have uncensored spicy scenes. They can be a good inspiration for your next adventure.
There are influential psychology books out there that might liven up your sexual life as well. Even nowadays, where there are no taboos, some of these books are considered controversial and inappropriate. However, partners need to explore and get to know each other so don’t shy away.
Some books are seen as masterclasses on making love, while others are more experimental in nature. But both will teach you about intimacy. Before buying just a random book, think about your partner’s wishes and preferences. Focus on their desires and you’ll get the best gift both of you can enjoy.